The need for approval, a powerful poison Today we talk about what I consider one of the greatest days of our poisons.
start with the fact that our subconscious is also externally programmable minimum stimulus provided by repeated and the fact that from conception we are impregnated by a series of psychic impressions to which we can not resist in any way. As adults begin to operate from the perspective of this program without being aware of and almost never challenge them. Often we accept without batting an eyelash concepts, rules, weather, principles of reality by those who are our reference points (parents, authority figures, but also teachers and authors of books or courses). The programs received become the engine of our lives (non conscious almost always), but are not immutable. On the one hand the rational mind could discriminate and decide what to believe and act on such content (thinking, remembering himself, being aware of) and the subconscious could reprogram itself wisely, neutralize negative emotions and impairs layers upon layers of beliefs taken for granted because shared by many of the other if he does consistently is taken for a walk outside influences, especially those that are common sense (shared). But this we are not told, and above all, always and under all circumstances (alas in many groups practices of healing and meditation and the like), we are taught that there are always other higher of us who know more about us and then some mental programs are needed (the guru worship, serve this or that sect, feed the bank account of the psychiatrist, you need this therapy alternatva, blindly believe in karma and reincarnation). It 'clear that if you do not' decide 'what to put in our mind someone else will do it for us, or the bad, we will continue to act under existing programs, and this in a totally unconscious. Many followers of spiritual teachings, for example, they merely repeat the concepts or the master of sacred texts that have existed for millennia, are considered infallible, without calling to mind that the times in which they were written had a level of understanding of the spiritual dimensions of all different, and that they still have the writings of fallible human beings (as it says can not remember who God is unchangeable but his understanding that evolves in time, then how can you understand God with a written 3000 years ago?). They do not ever challenge them on the sole fact that they feel safe in marrying the ideal that is supported by others (all religions, traditions work that way). She married at the end common sense, or any other "U.S.", ie giving for granted that - like when we were unaware of the mother's belly - bigger ones of us know more than us in terms of reality, and being afraid to discover for themselves what is true or false, try to feel safe. A motivated, and always a fear of bed! Even when we act of our own free will, choosing a group other than their own, a move is almost always the fear of loneliness and the need for approval, control and security. One of the most unfortunate result of not being able to \\ want to manage their own mind \\ awareness is the need for approval from others, a thin, continuous poison that makes the human being a slave and prevents him from experiencing the highest levels of ' be. The need for approval has a number of external events: defend their ideas in a very switched on, for example, a lot about yourself and just listen to others, constantly quoting someone else and rely on what others with more authority and fame do, think, say or write, to speak of things that we do not know if not by hearsay, to blindly accept the teachings and perform a disciple of this or that guru, want to be right (or apparent). But he also exteriorizations thinner. Hatred can be caused by a frustrated need for approval, as is defined on the side of this or that movement (they are vegan, are left, are of Rome, etc. ...) is almost always the result of a need for approval , to feel safe in a group, to be supported by a 'we' (and thus being against something else). The couple can get a mortgage to satisfy their need to be approved by the other even if the first time the infatuation and passion may blind us to share this vision and with love. In the end almost all the couples I know are in this situation where we cancel or numbness in a near-death or slaughter of one evil and hatred because the other does not meet our mental models. I want to marry or have children because 'you must' or 'it right' hides the fear of being disapproved of by the company better than we know what is right or wrong. Having to always have their say or otherwise agree on a topic is a sure sign of the need to be approved. Being a therapist, a guru, a teacher, more often than we would like to believe hides a great need for approval from others that feed energy to the status of 'character' that is chosen to impersonate. Many things we do in life, we take jobs and careers, relationships in which we get stuck and ideas that advocate a sword to kill us for them, are almost all resulted from a need for approval by some authority figure in our past and is probably why many lives are so bad. As I said before, the need for approval is the poison that winds in our subtle bodies (literally) to bring every cell in our body the message:
'you do not have any power over your life if you are alone, and with most other authorities know more than you. If you have their approval \\ then considered worth something '. This message goes to pollute thoughts and emotions that, as you know, are the foundations of material reality. I believe that by eliminating the need for approval from every area of \u200b\u200byour life and check to see if what we are doing we are doing something for ourselves or for others, some wonderful things happen:
- There was independent of the collective thought forms and reduce drastically energy loss of our subtle bodies (not influenza because we take more turns, our bank account is no longer dependent on the 'crisis' to take two examples).
- We are, all things considered and we are much more free, because we have more options to choose from, not just those that the 'common sense' sells us to survive.
- stop feeling powerless. Fact, it happens that breaks the magic in our lives when all our needs approval, even the most hidden, erased.
- We have a lot more imagination, creativity and joy.
- We can become true masters for ourselves and for others, without it becoming a stage.
When you no longer need approval and no longer afraid of being alone can decide who will be according to what you love and not according to what others believe is right. You can choose to be one hundred percent in what you do even if you do not approved and shared by no other than you because it is the soul who is asking you to take that experience and do not form a thought of who knows whom. When you're not afraid of disappointing someone can have a real relationship with that person and that are not based on fear but on love. You can speak your mind without hurting, angry or feel bad, even if what you say is a reprimand or a negative note and you can only do from the perspective of a centering is ensured largely by the absence of any need for approval and security. You can do it because they discover that beyond these needs based on the illusion of separation is a fundamental unity and justice in all that happens and makes sense in any event be or seemingly senseless tragedy, and then automatically stop searching to defend your position because you know that it is essentially useless, that is no more, after a while, 'a' me 'to defend.
It 's like killing within himself the need for approval to kill himself just that Ego which has always tried to defend, brick by brick, and the miracle is that the ego dying pre-programmed, automatic and full of fear, it really starts to flow with abundance, health and success, in ways that no book of self-help and no law of attraction would have been able to explain. Killing the need for approval may find that many friends disappear and preferences are changing because many were simply not our children but to those needs. You can find out that we were taking close to 20 years only a problem to get approval from those with whom we share it (including doctors and psychotherapists). You may find that we had not happened because someone would be affected if, as we see with dismay that we were living well below our actual possibilities, because the society in which we were immersed not have shared the uncontrolled expression of all our talents.
A hug.
As the title clearly suggests, this book is an essay about the creatures that inhabit the fairy world. In the first part of the author, Cassandra Eason, runs into a general discussion about fairies, trying to provide answers to several questions about their existence and their origins. It also exposes the view that both the Church and science have developed in purpose and provides some evidence on the existence of fairy amount. In the second part the author takes the reader to discover the different types of magical creatures, and examined their physical characteristics and especially behavioral deva by the elves, gnomes from the sirens, banshee from the goblin. Last chapter is devoted to Arthurian legend, is intrinsically wrapped up in a magical fairy figures (think Merlin and Morgana, central characters of the stories of King Arthur). At the end of each chapter, the author dispenses practical advice on how to find you and get in touch with them but also how to develop their psychic force and their magical powers: these are the keys to the secret world mentioned by the subsection. There is also an appendix, the dictionary of the fairies from A to Z, or a Chamber composed of very brief descriptions of all the fairies put in alphabetical order. 
Cassandra Eason (pictured right) is an expert on Wicca, Druidism, Celtic folklore and Nordic traditions. Conducts seminars for success in England, and especially in Sweden and the USA, on psychic development, magic, sorcery, divination and healing (especially windows), and spirituality of nature. It is a recognized and Druidess practitioner. She has appeared frequently in international broadcasting (on channels such as BBC, NBC, Paramount) and her articles have been written in magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Elle, and so on. He has held a series of conferences on the paranormal at the universities of Oxford, London and Glasgow. England has published over fifty books and two encyclopedias on magic, which have been translated into fifteen languages \u200b\u200band have become best sellers in the rest of the world. He lives on the Isle of Wight with her husband Jack and their five children. 
